Before the happiest day of your life, comes a lot of really crazy ones. And in my case, trying to plan a wedding with half the members across an ocean - means I have more than my share!
After a 2 months laps of not really caring about the wedding I'm starting to come around.
My cousin's wedding was last weekend and it cured me from my rut of wedding planning hatred. Plus she gave me 4 dozen votive candles and the stands for my table names which made me happy -- because getting stuff for free is always good.
Have to Do a lot of the Big Things still like sort out Catering, Cake, Photographer etc but I have some ideas:
I've decided I want my hair kind of like this:

My MIL2B is going to do it, so she'll do a hair trial for me in Dec when I'm in England just before Xmas :)
The photographer I've liked the most so far has been this lady:
http://www.melodyoverholser.com/ - My sister and I met her at a craft's fair near where my sister lives. She seemed really nice. Want to book a consulation sometime soon to check her prices etc.